Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. I am 30 years old and have been married for 5 years and we have two amazing kids, a boy and a girl who are 4 and 1 years old respectively. I am Married female needs bi friend and I have always ndeds this since demale school but have been ashamed to admit it to anyone, even myself.
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Thanks for listening. It's great you've opened your own thread.
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Please don't worry about the other section, I'll leave a msg for mod's. To address your post; it seems you've spent most of it talking about what you 'don't' want. How about discussing what you 'do' want. Try to only include yourself, as no-one can speak for your wife and children, only they can. I'd Married female needs bi friend suggest you speak with a counsellor or psychologist about what's happening.
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Married female needs bi friend There are so many issues to work thru, it'd be a positive step to seek support; maybe your GP can help. When I was confused about my sexuality my Married female needs bi friend was a gem. It's pretty late so I might leave things here ok. It's good to see you back writing it out and asking for help. Thanks very much Sez and thanks for the advice. Not wanting to hurt anyone. Hi Cal, my advice is to you is neede you are only 30 years old.
I know 3 years can feel like a long time when you've been in the closet your whole life and you want to explore what's out there. Your feelings are important, but your circumstances sound difficult. Coming out is never easy, and there is never a 'right' time to do it. That said, some times are frieend than others, and from what you are saying, you will be in a better position to deal with the fallout if you Woman seeking casual sex Bowler Wisconsin till your degree is finished.
Many people come out later than that. I know lots of gay or bi dads who have maintained good relationships with their ex wives and children after a divorce, this is no different to a straight couple that divorces.
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Things are going to be hard when the truth comes out anyway. Is there anything to be gained by creating anxiety Marrjed as well? I ended a 7 year marriage and I have two children under 6. It was terribly difficult.
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I was also studying atm too finishing of cemale for a new career. It was very tough. I could hardly go to the family doctor to discuss this! He was wonderful and referred me on to a psychologist that was experienced in this field. These meetings helped me clarify what was right for me.
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My wife and I love our children, sure, she was hurt for a long time and is only really now seeing that it can be ok and that life moves forward the way you both choose it too. It can be traumatic and hurtful or you can slowly work things out so not all is lost. I feel like I'm reading exactly about myself,it's has taken me back a little ,to read someone is in the exact sam position honestly made me think more it's nice to know I'm not the only one, your words are put perfect I was going to write a post and didn't know where to start.
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Just Sara Champion Alumni. Hey again Cal; It's great you've opened your own thread. Till next time.
One way or another you can't pretend to live a life that isn't true, because what happens if you meet a guy and fall in love with him, then your situation will only become worse. I understand Geoff and thank you very much neecs your thoughts.
It just, in my head at the minute either decision I make is going to Marrier severe upset. I love them all very much, I feel selfish. Three lives turned upside down for my one. Three people driend or just the one me. I also have a step son, whose 10, and she has an older son at home whose At the minute when I look at my kids I just well up, Married female needs bi friend I may not see these family times again, see them Married female needs bi friend funny, having a laugh, is all dancing together.
Is me coming out worth loosing all Big boys need fun to If you decided to leave would you take the kids with you, because there seems to be a sticking point in your situation.
Thanks for neefs response Geoff.
Thanks very much for your thoughts Marcus. I think I will leave it till after uni, I just know she knows something is up, and what do I say when she asks, do I lie?
But I agree with what you are saying: It's really hard to know what to say to you, Cal. If she has noticed that something is up, then it sounds like your anxiety is getting hard to contain.
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